Dear 1one4 Aunty

Good Girl Gone Bad

People say it's got nothing to do with me but I totally disagree. I don't think it is when she has HIV, get pregnant, or used for ritual purposes before I…

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Halal Dating

Dear 1one4 Aunty, I am a 32 year old divorcee. My first marriage was a disaster and something I do not like dwelling on. We were definitely two very incompatible people that shouldn’t have met on this earth under any gu…

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35 and a Side Chick. Help Me!

Dear 1one4 Aunty, I am a 35 year old single Muslim woman. I have been very unfortunate in relationships, my lot has been meeting Christian men, I was even engaged to be married to a pastor in my past life but bolted at …

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Are Muslims Allowed Bucket List

Dear 1one4 Aunty, I went for a self development course, and in between the programme we were told to write our bucket list. This is something I have never really thought about. As a Muslim, I tend to live each day like…

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Envy Is Eating Me Raw

Dear 1one4 Aunty, I know they say it is not good to compare ourselves with others, I know they say everyone has their own path, story, their own life but I cannot help but compare myself to my best friend. We graduated …

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Matchmaker Make Me a Perfect Match

Muslim women and men who are still unmarried should be willing to try an arranged marriage. Although we can’t erase the fact that the reality of arranged marriages is different for everyone (as sometimes arranged marriages turns out badly) but we shouldn’t erase it as another medium to get a spouse.…

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