8 Things to Enhance Marital Relationship

According to the Quran, the purpose of marriage is to attain sukun (tranquility and peace), which can never be achieved through impulsive sexual fulfillment unless it is accompanied by mutual love, affection, caring, and sharing, which are all part and parcel of a fulfilling and productive marriage relationship. This was further emphasized by one of the hadiths of the Holy Prophet, Muhammad bn Abdullah (PBOH) "...marriage is half of faith..."

 Islam, as we know it holistically from the sources, is a balanced way of looking at things. Just like its meaning": Peace (from the word Salam), it has laid down the best of ways as regards all our life affairs in order to attain a peaceful existence.

Following are the 8 important factors that can in sha’ Allah strengthen a marriage relationship in Islam:

1.    Good Attitude

A Muslim must always have a positive attitude toward life. We say, “Alhamdulillah” (Praise be to Allah) for whatever He gives us (or doesn’t give us).

2.    Help

Our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) stressed the importance of men helping their wives and Allah tells us the importance of women being mates and helpers to their husbands. This is a real “win-win” situation, if we just follow it.

3.    Trust

Muslims, men and women are ordered to be trustworthy and follow the example of our prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) as the “Trustworthy”.

4.    Respect

You get respect, when you give respect. This is mandatory for all Muslims toward all people, how much more toward the spouse?

5.    Joy

Our prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to entertain his wife Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) and she used to play and race with him. She said, “I used to out-run him, but then when I got heavy he used to outrun me”. He told us to play with our wives and have some fun.

6.    Forgiveness

Clearly, this is one of the most important aspects of Islam. Whoever does not forgive – will not be forgiven. This comes from Allah, Himself. We must learn to forgive each others for a good relationship.

7.    Time

Spend time together. Go for walks. Take a bus ride. Visit a friend or someone who is ill (you get big rewards for that). Fast together on Mondays & Thursdays if you can. Make hajj – this is a great way to get a “new start” on life.

8.    Worship

Our prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), used to lead his wife in salah, even though he lived connected to the mosque. He told us not to make our homes like grave yards. We should offer some of our sunnah prayers at home.


Credit: Taken with slight modifications from: www.orbitislam.com

 Picture by: Covered and Chic

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