unannounced, at awkward times, sitting too long, asking too many
questions, speaking too loudly, allowing our children to run a mock if
they are with us etc is all unethical.
should also be considerate of those we visit by not allowing them to
prepare snacks or meals for us when they are busy, sickly or in a rush
to go somewhere.
the other hand when people visit us although we should honour them, we
do not have to prepare sophisticated meals & fries etc all the time.
A simple snack or glass of water would also suffice.
Whether more or less, whatever is served must be from the depth of our hearts.
Mufti Ismail Menk