HOW DO I KNOW A LADY IS AFTER MY MONEY OR LOVE?

Dear 1one4 Aunty,

I am an upwardly mobile, good looking (even if I say so myself) Muslim man. I was once engaged to marry the lady that I know genuinely loved me, unfortunately my love died after a protracted illness. Since her death, I have been finding it difficult to decipher between true love and the ones in-it-for-the-money that we have everywhere these days.

Most sisters that I approach for relationship agree with little or no attempt, but I sense it is all about my money. I am a man that loves with all of my life, so it is very important to have all those feelings reciprocated. I have tried, dropping the car, using a friend's modest house and telling them that I am an insurance salesman, but somehow that doesn't work. Money has a way of showing itself.

I am determined to find true love however corrupt Lagos is. Please where do I look? Am not the one to attend Islamic functions per se, I just pray and leave quickly. There is always something waiting to be attended to. Someone suggested using social media, I think that is dangerous and smells of desperation. Please Aunty, tell me how best to go about this in this shark infested Lagos that we live in.

Jazakhalahi khayran.

AbdulGafar

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