Dear 1one4 Aunty,
I am an upwardly mobile, good looking (even if I say
so myself) Muslim man. I was once engaged to marry the lady that I know
genuinely loved me, unfortunately my love died after a protracted illness.
Since her death, I have been finding it difficult to decipher between true love
and the ones in-it-for-the-money that we have everywhere these days.
Most sisters that I approach for relationship agree
with little or no attempt, but I sense it is all about my money. I am a man
that loves with all of my life, so it is very important to have all those
feelings reciprocated. I have tried, dropping the car, using a friend's modest
house and telling them that I am an insurance salesman, but somehow that
doesn't work. Money has a way of showing itself.
I am determined to find
true love however corrupt Lagos is. Please where do I look? Am not the one to
attend Islamic functions per se, I just pray and leave quickly. There is always
something waiting to be attended to. Someone suggested using social media, I
think that is dangerous and smells of desperation. Please Aunty, tell me how
best to go about this in this shark infested Lagos that we live in.