Dear 1one4 Aunty,

I am just going to hit the bull’s eye as I really want to know if my stand is a bad one.

I am a Muslim (though I don’t pray regularly) and the last child of my parents. My older siblings are very religious or pious (as it may). Growing up, I have always been seen as the black sheep of the family. My two male siblings got married to hijab and niqab sisters respectively. To be honest, they look very happy together.

For a while now, I have been attending lectures and single Muslims forum in a bid to meet a bride. The lectures and forum have been good as they teach on Quran/Hadith ways of keeping a good marriage. The only issue I have is that I don’t ever get attracted to any lady as long as she puts on hijab; and to make matters worse, niqab. I really wish to have a beautiful marriage and I know it will be more possible if I marry a woman with good understanding of Islam.

I am always attracted to ladies; tight gowns, leggings, Brazilian wig, longer lashes, and so on. And these ladies like me too. I am lost between choosing my attraction and possibility of a good marriage. I seriously need you to put me through on this.


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